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How can I strengthen my bond with my children?

On Behalf of | Jan 12, 2019 | Paternity |

Many divorced dads in Missouri worry that bonds with their children aren’t as strong as they could be. It can be tough to effectively bond with your kids after divorce, especially when your relationship with your ex is strained or your split was particularly contentious. Because it’s crucial that you maintain a strong and loving relationship with your children, Very Well Family offers the following advice.

Make your kids top priority

After a divorce, children often feel lost in the shuffle. Make sure your children and their best interests remain a priority in your life at all times. When you spend time together, refrain from bringing adult problems and stressors into the mix. Instead, enjoy the time you do have, especially if you’re the non-custodial parent.

Tell them you love them frequently

All kids deserve to be loved unconditionally. Make sure your children know your true feelings by telling them you love them often and sincerely. This is most important if you’re experiencing disagreements or conflicts with your kids. It’s normal to argue with people in your life, and it’s possible to keep loving a person even while you’re at odds. Telling your children you love them will make them feel safe and secure in your relationship.

Take time to play

It’s also important to participate in the activities your kids enjoy. For small kids, this entails playing with dolls and blocks or singing songs. Older kids will have different interests, such as playing board games or on the computer. No matter what they enjoy, taking time to interact with your kids as they pursue their interests will have a huge impact on your father-child bond. 

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